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Another year
is rapidly drawing to a close. Every year, faster and faster. Busy days
go sailing by. Christmas brings a welcome impetus to share our lives with
friends and family. This year has had its share of ups and downs, in retrospect,
more ups than downs.
January is Meghan's month of birth and she is rapidly
approaching sixteen. The New Year will see us into a whole new phase
of parenting called driver education. We are quaking in our boots. Meghan
is in grade 10 and continues to excel at school. She gets involved in
every theatrical opportunity that comes her way. Last summer the Deep
River Musical Society put on "Evita". Recently she was involved
in the high school musical production of "My Fair Lady". Meghan's
very big news is that she has been accepted to participate in a Rotary
Student Exchange for the next school year. She will spend ten months
living and attending school in another country. Her top three choices
are Japan, Russia and Ecuador. We hope to hear where she will be place
by the end of December so we can get to work on Visa requirements and
she can start learning some language basics such as "what happened
to my luggage?" Meghan led us into new territory earlier in the
year when she landed a 'real' job working at our local Curves fitness
club, so she can save her pennies for next year's grand adventure.
***News flash: We've just found out that
Meghan will be going to Russia
February is Lauren's month of birth. She will soon
be turning 13. Our last official teenager, although being the youngest
in the pack, she's pretty much already there. She was really pleased
to move into what is left of our middle school (now grades 7 & 8
nested in one cozy hallway of our high school) and has taken locker
decor to new heights. It turns out to be a bit like interior decorating.
Like her sister, she gets involved in anything theatrical that goes
by. Earlier in the year, before "Evita" rehearsals were seriously
underway, she combined her love of showmanship with her love of cooking
and filmed a couple of episodes of her show "Cooking with the Toad".
March & April passed uneventfully enough. Which
doesn't mean they weren't busy, just not a lot to report! Lauren's Youth
Theatre Group put on a very funny production called "Fifteen Reasons
not to be in a Play" and Meghan's high school theatre arts company
went to the Sears Drama Festival with a couple of plays. Meghan won
an Award of Merit for her performance in "Why Do We Laugh".
May brings David's birthday. He's 15 going on 16 wishing
he was 26. He's VERY keen to get his driver's license and when we point
out that he's not likely to get driver's ed. until the fall (given the
late-spring time of this birthday) he argues that they'll probably let
him in because he'll be almost 16. We're not sure the law works that
way, however I guess we'll find out in the spring. David graduated from
grade eight last year, a big event in Ontario. This year brings his
first year of high school, which he enjoys very much, except for the
work. He's also involved in "My Fair Lady", first doing lighting,
and then recruited to dance in the chorus due to a chronic shortage
of boys in theatre. In practice with Meghan, he did a lift, tossing
her and neglecting to catch her. He's threatening to do that on stage
on closing night. He achieved his blue belt in karate last spring and
hopes to get his first of two brown belt levels next spring.
May also brought the first anniversary of the loss
of Annabel, Leslie's mother. We marked the event by interring her in
our family plot in the Deep River cemetery. Up til then, her urn was
placed next to the fireplace she enjoyed so much, in the home she and
Hugh built together. We discovered something interesting as Hugh designed
a central monument for our family plot, and that is that family plots
don't exist the way that they used to. Leslie's family has a couple
of churchyards where one can go and trace back several generations,
however Deep River's cemetery regulations didn't allow for anything
more than a double monument for a married couple. Fortunately the Mayor
and others readily recognized the hole in the regulations, and rewrote
sections of the by-law to allow us to proceed with our project. We hope
to have our family monument in place by the end of the year.
June brings Leslie's birthday, age unimportant, variable
if you are only as old as you feel! Leslie joined the Valley
Artisans Co-op in Deep River in the spring and has been enjoying
her quilting tremendously. She made the mistake of demonstrating her
technical prowess by typing on her portable Palm keyboard at a Co-op
meeting and found herself webmaster. She is also called on to sew flags
and banners for them, but feels that these contributions are far preferable
to being secretary, or heaven-forbid, president! She continues with
La Leche League, supporting breastfeeding mothers, in her spare time
(?!) and does pretty much everything else associated with managing a
very busy household full of teens. Leslie keeps wondering when she will
reach the plateau, as it always seems that it can't get any busier...and
yet it does.
July. Summer holidays. Alarm clocks off!! July is
the month we celebrate Biniyam's birthday. He turned fifteen this year.
Biniyam flew out to Prince Albert, Saskatchewan on July 2 to help his
grandfather Hugh (Leslie's dad) with the family cottage on Lac La Ronge.
They spent quite a bit of time in P.A. with Leslie's sister Andrea where
Biniyam enjoyed golfing and playing World of Warcraft with his Aunt.
Although he is a newbie golfer, he repeatedly tied and even beat his
Aunt at the game. This fall Biniyam started grade eight in Deep River
but struggled with family life. We decided it would be better for all
for Biniyam to return to P.A. in mid-November to complete grade eight
and swim with the Prince Albert Sharks Club. A big change for Biniyam,
and while we miss him here at home, he seems to be thriving in Saskatchewan.
August the rest of the family joined Biniyam in Saskatchewan
and spent most of the month at the family cottage on Lac La Ronge, sadly
for the last time. We've been travelling there almost every summer for
the last thirty-four years, but with the loss of Leslie's mother, Annabel,
her father's heart was no longer in it. The cottage was sold to landscape
artist, Greg
Hardy, who has a young family and will, we hope, love it the way
that we did. Perhaps we'll start to see our island, or familiar views
from it, appearing in his paintings.
September. Back to school. This has always been the
'real' New Year for us. We no longer have anyone in our primary school
which feels a little weird. Lauren & Biniyam started grades seven
and eight at our middle school, located in a wing of our high school.
Meghan & David started grades nine and ten in our high school. Biniyam
has since moved to Princess Margaret School (PMS) in Prince Albert.
School photos are getting increasingly professional and interesting.
Unfortunately, Biniyam managed to miss getting his taken and Meghan's
& David's haven't come back yet. Fortunately, Lauren waited until
after picture day to dye her hair bright pink.
October. Thanksgiving. We enjoyed
a trip down to St. Catherine's to celebrate a couple of family birthdays.
It was great to spend extended family time that was not associated with
a funeral. The weather was very warm and we enjoyed a trip to Niagara
Falls with the girls while the boys went paint-balling. Halloween.
The girls LOVE to dress-up. The guys will put on minimal costumery to
bag some candy. Lauren had a particularly funny costume this year. She
was the damsel in distress tied to the railroad track, who became impatient
waiting for rescue and picked herself up.
November. My Fair Lady completed its three night run.
David danced and sang and worked back stage. Meghan danced and sang
and performed a cameo role. We went on opening night and thought it
was the best high school production we'd seen (even someone without
a kid in the show said that)! With MFL ending, both girls will be chasing
parts in an upcoming town musical, "The Good, the Bad & the
Nerdy". Locally written and produced, it is part three in a comedy
series which follows the history of the Deep River area from the time
that Ottawa parachuted a whole whack of nuclear scientists into the
backwoods to start AECL after WWII. These plays wouldn't mean a whole
lot to anyone not associated with the area, but they are rolling on
the floor funny for the rest of us. |
December.
Here we are at the closing of another year with Andrew's birthday tucked
in just before the end. This year he's celebrating his fiftieth. We
are pleased that his family will be joining us to celebrate his birthday
and spend Christmas with us. Andrew continues his challenging and rewarding
career at AECL, where he is part of the leadership team for the Research
and Technology Division, as General Manager of Programs and Nuclear
Oversight (that's a mouthful). Andrew has recently passed his 25th anniversary
with the company. This year also saw Andrew pass a similar anniversary
with Scouting, and with the kids having moved on to other activities,
he decided it was time to hang up his hiking boots. Outside of work,
Andrew keeps busy with various sports - biking, X-country skiing, curling
- and trying to stay on top of the never-ending stream of fix-it projects
around the house.
As the year draws to a close, we hope that you enjoy a lovely holiday
season complete with generous measures of peace and joy, and that 2008
is a year of health, happiness and all things good. Stay in touch! |